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Sub space and sub dropSeptember 6th 2019 was yet another amazing day with my Master.We had both taken a day holiday from work which would allow us a good 8 hours together.You arrived at mine just before 7am, let yourself in and came upstairs and slid into bed beside me. We had a very intense day together, enjoying each other in so many different ways. You even managed to push me further with my fear of needles as I experienced the beginnings of some needle play.It may have only been 3 needles that day, but I hope that it showed how much I trust you Sir. This really did push my limits, but I am hoping we can progress and take this further soon. Once again, I managed to hit sub space and I have decided that I would share my experience, my feelings and understanding of sub space and sub drop this time.I have only recently been privileged and relaxed enough to encounter sub space on a couple of occasions. One thing I have discovered from the amazing experience is, that the sub drop that I get afterwards if far more intense and takes longer to recover.Sub space and sub drop are different for everyone. Some people never get there no matter how hard they try, and others seem to fall into it almost immediately and of course, we all have our own experience and definition of both. This of course is only mine… SUB SPACESub space is a state that a submissive can reach with their Dominant partner. The intense experiences of pleasure and sometimes pain, trigger a sympathetic nervous system response. Sub space can take on two forms and the easiest way to described either sub space is that, you sometimes experience a strong whole-body tingling sensation together with an inability to focus properly. Other times it feels like a warm, floaty, spacey feeling. Physiological sub space, which they say is the most common type is induced through pain play, generally from impact toys, for example, a flogger, paddle, cane etc.Psychological sub space is far more common than the physiological kind but less recognised as actual sub space. This is induced by a feeling of being drawn to a Dom. It may sound like a strange phenomenon, but it is widespread among subs. It is not the same as sexual arousal, although it could be accompanied by that. The sensation is very much an altered state, where the person becomes inarticulate, non-verbal or suggestible. It is an inviting feeling, and very hard to resist. A sub can drop easily into psychological sub space around a Dom and it can sometimes be mistaken for a hypnotic trance. After trawling the internet, I have found that not all Dom’s will allow their subs to enter sub space. They will monitor their partner and pause when they feel that sub space is close until the feeling passes so that their subs remain totally with it and fully sensitive to pain, during their sessions.The natural chemicals, which are part of the fight or flight response, produce the same bakırköy escort effect as a morphine like d**g and increase the pain tolerance of the submissive. It causes the trance like state and you start to feel an out of body feeling. You become detached from reality and as the high comes down, you feel a deep exhaustion as well as being somewhat incoherent. It is possible once reaching a height of sub space, that you can lose all sensation of pain.Basically, when you experience pain and pleasure together, it is amazing! However, you do need to have some level of enjoyment from both at least. Your body gets confused and signals get mixed in the brain which then release a bunch of ‘happy’ chemicals.Just because I enjoy an element of pain, my body is still like everyone else and when it comes to pain, the body panics. People seem to assume that if you enjoy pain, you don’t have pain receptors, but of course you do!A crop across any part of the body feels like a crop strike regardless as to whether you’ve got some kink that let you enjoy the pain a little differently than other people. At the end of the day, our bodies are designed to urge us to avoid pain. Before all those happy chemicals start to compound in your head, you’re going to feel panic as its your body’s way of saying what the fuck … stop!It becomes mind over matter. First, when it lands there is nothing at all, and then a burning pain that slowly spreads out. It’s in that moment where the pain has reached its peak and the sensation starts to spread into a dull ache that the body releases a chemical to depress the pain, basically its a happy natural d**g. When those chemicals build and build in your body, the brain gets that confused that it actually stops processing pain in the normal way. This is then sub space. You will still feel the crop land, you are aware on some level that there was pain, but the d**g that your brain produces doesn’t let you process it properly. So basically, when more pain stimulation is introduced, the brain produces more of the chemicals, and the effect just amplifies.Entering sub space is when you go from the tense and fighting to hold the position you are in, to a feeling where everything seems to melt. It is similar to the way you feel after a really good massage. It is a place where the brain is blissfully empty and quiet.For sub space to take over, you really do need something to induce all the chemicals in your body. Some can only get into sub space via pain, but I have also reached mine through seriously hard fucking sessions and submissive duties. Reaching sub space is a challenge and many people will miss out on experiencing it, because of the body’s fight or flight response. But remember, subspace can be very dangerous as it is a kind of a morphine like d**g and some subs will chase this.You must have trust and feel protected beşiktaş escort by your Dom, I know I am safe because I know my Master is watching out for me and knowing that, allows me to let go and go with it.Every Dom has the responsibility of:i) Knowing the signs of sub space, ii) Understanding what their sub can take safely, iii) Knowing when to stop, because the sub will not stop the session after they’re in sub space. They are off in la-la land and at that point the Dom could keep going with what he is doing but it would only push the submissive further and deeper into sub space.A good Dom will recognise the physical change as the sub “drops” into sub space. Apparently, it’s called a drop because of that sudden physical tiredness that hits as the chemical takes over and all the tension melts out of your muscles. The Dom should let the sub enjoy sub space but to watch and monitor them carefully. For me, aftercare is even more important after sub space. I have found that I am so out of it and relaxed that I feel like I want to just cuddle and fall sleep. I get really emotional as my body tries to process the chemicals flooding it. I get cold and start shivering, so my Master has to be very aware and very confident in handling it. Mine will wrap me in a blanket and provides the physical contact I need whilst talking to me to help bring me back from sub space. Coming out of sub space can be pleasant though. Listening to your Dom tell you how you’re a good girl and how happy you made them. The most important thing is, that they stay with you until you’re okay and keep an eye on you as sub drop can hit you like a brick wall as it is a sudden response to the loss of all those brain chemicals. It can show itself as exhaustion, suddenly being emotional/irritable, or even feeling depressed.The best thing to do if you feel sub drop, is to reach out to your Dom for that confirmation that everything is okay as it really does help. Some of the recognisable symptoms of sub space are, less sensation of pain, loss of coordination, inability to articulate and decreased mental clarity.Remember though that sub space doesn’t always happen. It may happen for some subs and not others. It may happen during some scenes and not others. Sub space differs between people, it’s a kind of sense of detachment, an out of body experience.I can form thoughts, but I can’t really speak as my mind floats off. If I talk, I don’t remember what I have said, or I might not even make much sense. The first time I hit sub space, I wasn’t consciously aware of what it was or what had happened, but I knew that I felt amazing and after some internet research, it was suggested that I hit sub space.I remember that I was nervous, then there was that floating, relaxed feeling.Sub space seems to require the ability relax and to let go and let things happen, whilst beylikdüzü escort focusing on every sensation.SUB DROPThis happens after and good or intense session where you feel great and you don’t want that feeling to end. Sub drop happens when that feeling starts to go away. You ache, feel sad, and depressed. It is the body’s response to the drop of endorphins after a session. It is the fatigue, the sadness, the aches and pains and recovery from marks.You could feel like you have a hangover and possibly feel lost or depressed for hours or even days. Sometimes you can just sleep it off and recover in a matter of hours or overnight but in some cases, you can still be showing signs of a drop days after.Sub drop appears to happen more in committed relationships more than those of casual play ones. Casual players tend not to get as many drop issues, and they say the reason for this is that they don’t have the same element of intimacy that exists in a longer-term relationship. I am no way saying that all casual relationships lack intimacy, but if you have been in a committed relationship for a while, you will know the intimacy level is different than that of a casual one.This intimacy often causes issues with boundaries and love. When the play is over the submissive can question the validity of those feelings. Things like “how could he love me if he did that to me”, Of course, it is all consensual and enjoyable at the time, but once it is over and sub space kicks in, the questions can bring emotions of sadness, questioning, and disbelief. These are all very normal though.Another reason that sub drop occurs more in committed relationships is that limits are tested far more, so the play can be more extreme and edgier. Casual relationships tend to not be able to develop the trust and history needed to test boundaries as easily. Sub Drop is hard to deal with but try to embrace the experience and prepare for the next time. I know we get sad, stressed, feel lonely, depressed and a variety of other low impact emotions when in a drop, but once you are aware of what’s going on you can learn from it and how to make the next drop less severe. Your feelings do not have to be rational, but they are valid.When sub drop happens, there is usually a period of low feelings or depression. The brain realises the chemical levels are low so begins production again, but over produces to compensate. This then becomes a roller coaster as it can produce too much chemicals, then it shuts down, level drops below normal and then it over produces again. This effect goes on until the brain finally gets to a normal state again.This period usually leaves the submissive feeling very confused and emotionally unsure and vulnerable. It is a time where a sub relies heavily on their Dom and can be a very scary period. As they say – What goes up must come down. There are no hard or fast rules about sub drop. No one knows how bad it might be, or what you will feel like or how long it will last.Sub drop is a unique experience to each of us and again may not happen every time. One thing I do know for sure is, that despite the sub drop, sub space is a fantastic, amazing experience and I can’t wait till my Master takes me there again xx
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